(first off im sorry i have not blogged in a while i have been doing other things so i promise i will get back on track)
So i was talking to my friend and she says "what do i do this guy is so boring i wanna end the convo but i don't wanna be rude! what do i do? So i started to give her all these thing to say then she's like that's good but i wanna stay online so he would know im lying! Then it hit me she is completely rite that is LYING and that's so rude! So im sitting here thinking like Everyone is put in this place one way or another... So instead of lying and making the situation way more complicated then it needs to be just be STRAIGHT FORWARD! Just say" Hey i bet your a really good guy but im just not looking for anything more then a friend ship, so if you cant respect that or your mad im sorry but i would rather be honest then lead you on and then brake it off so im really sorry but we can remain friends." You know like as bad as you will feel after saying it i bet the guy will thank you for being so honest and not sugar coating it. Some of my friends that read this know about the guy i went on a date on and rite now we are standing on a rocky boat! To be honest i wish he would just be honest with me he dose not even reply to my text anymore but that's okay his loss i just wanna be friends and little dose he know i can take the heat that's why im in the kitchen! he can be up front but whatever! Bottom line is if you just keep it 100 and stay up front the situation will be less complicated and everyone will be happy and if he's not happy at that moment he will respect you in the end for looking out for him and yourself so just be up front the result is so worth it!
xoxo virtuous girl
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