the number one debate with the mind

This blog is just not for my friend but for any girl! The number one debate with the mind is.... DATING! Just from this one word a young women can feel many emotions fear, excitement, ect
I don't know about anyone's religious background who is reading this but i do know in my and in anyone who shares my you have to wait until your 16. So dating is something we wait 15 yrs for witch is a long time but that's good because we have plenty of time to prepare. So when you spark interest with a guy the only human thing to think is i want to go on a date wit him rite. Now here's the hard part Asking him. To me it always sounded weird like "what! no! he is suppose to ask me rite!?" So i decided to find out if its okay for a girl to ask a guy on a date the first person i asked was my mom. She told me that it is okay to ask a guy on a date and that boys are just as nervous as girls to. And when she was younger she asked a couple boys on dates before and it most of the time worked out. She said it shows a guy that your confident that your not just going to sit around and think about what you want but you go for it. So i asked more people and i got the same answers like it depends , no he should ask you! go for it! In the end the only person who can truly answer this question is you! Do you have interest in the guy? Dose he make you smile? Do you share the same morals? If the answer is yes yes yes then go for it and if theirs one no still go for it. Because in the end its not about what everyone else wants or thinks its about what you want and think. Are you ready for a date? If you are then go for it you wont know what its like until you try the more you ask the essayer it is and more confident you get. But then comes the debate part you finally get all worked up and you wanna ask but the nerves decided to take a walk down your brain! Then you think maybe i shouldn't what if he says no! ill be so crushed! If he says no they you dust it off and move on that means he wasn't the one and the date would have been lame haha But if you do not ask i can truly say That if you do not ask you will always wish you did!!! The questions what could have should have would have happen will always pop up because you didnt try! But if you ask and he says yes then you can always remember i did it and its okay its not so bad:) and if you ask and he says no tell him okay maybe another time and move on and you should still feel awesome because you had the gutts to do it witch most girls dont! If you dont you will feel regret i hope i helped let me know if i did :)
xoxo virtuous girl