Thursday, July 8, 2010

A pahrump relationship

Okay im excited because this is my first real blog!)
So someone asked me to talk about a problem shes having and would rather keep herself a secret witch is fine :) I would like to start off by saying you are wrong because pahrump is one hour away its not that far love/like has no distance lol. I can understand how your feeling about how you feel its kind of pointless to flirt because hes in pahrump because im going threw the same thing as you. I too have struck interest in a guy who lives in pahrump to. I decided hes a great guy and if it was suppose to work out it will. If it dose not work out its okay because hes a fantastic friend and im okay if it just stays at that level. It dose not matter that he lives there and you live here its one hour away and if a spark happens you will find a way to see each other. I do not think you should find someone in vegas and give up on him, give him a chance :) run with your heart your young there will be a jar full of opportunity what is the worst that can happen? it dosent work out you never see each other? Okay well at least you can say hey i tried and thats all that matters. If this door closes the lord will open another one because he loves you. If your feeling too flirty at times stop yourself and remember there is a line that should not be crosses, think about what kind of text messages your sending him. Being a flirt is okay at times but you dont want to come off as something that your not. So go ahead and flirt but dont over flirt. One of the best kind of flirts to me is to get to know him. You both share the same morals so there should be nothing stopping you besides the living places. I say if he makes you happy and there is an interest. Ask him on a date!!! Get out there!!! Show him your not scared to be confident but keep it casual like bowling or something (we can double :) After all is said and done if he dose not have feelings for you like that its okay because you tried and now you know it wont be so bad , but if the date dose go well continue your path with him and let things fall in place if you still get nothing just be blunt and say something like : hey im interested in you i think your cute and a great person i just wanna know is this going to go anywhere because i want it too but if not its okay im okay with that and i still want to keep our friendship. well i really hoped i helped plss let me know if i did on facebook and if i didnt i will keep blogging this till i do :)
xoxo virtuous young women

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